there's no such thing as perfect love

Something that I think is essential information for anyone in a committed or long-term relationship
– or anyone hoping to one day be in a committed or long-term relationship is that things will not
always be perfect.
I know this sounds obvious, but you’d be surprised how many people enter into relationships and
marriages with unrealistic expectations. They think that if you love someone, that love will always
automatically be there and as long as the love is there, everything else will fall into place. That kind
of thinking puts a lot of pressure on the partner involved and indeed on the relationship.
The fact is, in any long-term relationship, love takes work. It needs to be nurtured. There will be
days when you wake up and don’t feel like being with that person. There will be times when you
look at your partner and think, ‘Who are you?’ or ‘I am not attracted to you.’
The important – and in fact, crucial – thing to remember here is that the feeling will most likely
pass. Of course, if you find yourself thinking that all the time, then maybe it is time to move on, but
in general, these feelings come and go in a relationship. It’s vital that you accept that as a normal
part of a relationship and don’t overanalyse it. Go with it and you will soon find yourself back in
love with that person wondering what happened and so grateful that you didn’t throw in the towel


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http://www.fb.co.id/blogs/6425/789/there-s-no-such-thing-as-perfect